2017 - My Turn

I have heard the term, it may not be my time, but it is my turn.  With all the madness that has been happening this year, good things are still happening.  I do not despair about the uncontrollable ...I simply recite to myself the SERENITY prayer.  I sometimes add my own verses to this prayer to make it specific to my needs and desires.

Yes, I feel it is my turn, and it is NOW!  So much goodness has appeared in my life recently.  I felt that it appeared magically because it seemed to have appeared so fast.  But wait, haven't I been pounding the streets, talking to folks everywhere, and NETWORKING my "blessed assurance" off!  It is quite true, FAITH without WORKS is dead!  So, yes, I have been working as well as having faith too-the faith of a mustard seed.  IT IS MY TURN because of my persistence and determination.  As I close, I remember a quote from Colin Powell who I admire immensely:  A dream doesn't become a reality through magic, it takes great determination and hard work!

Stay F.O.C.U.S. (ed) and remember SUCCESS IS YOUR DESTINY!

The Importance of Finding and Keeping a Job you Love

                There are so many articles and books about “Loving Your Job” and" Finding the Right Job".  I once asked a student, “What is it that you love so much that you would do for free”?  He thought about it for several seconds, and then replied, “if I tell you that I would be broke, wouldn’t I?   My response was, “only if you decide that you would be”. 

                Finding enjoyment in your work is very valuable, and would certainly increase your probability of becoming financially stable.  Some may say, will I be forever seeking that perfect job if I am to find fulfillment?.  Others may express that this will lead to total frustration.  Not really!  There is a small minority that will seek out work that they are passionate about that really supports their lifestyle.  However, even if the perfect job is not there, it is the way that you approach the job and its challenges.  According to writer, Kerry Harmon, “people worry too much about whether they have the skills needed to take on a loftier role, and they fret about failing”.  Is this you?

                I once took a job because I thought I could make a difference, and I would be doing something I loved. Looking back, this job literally made me sick.  I would walk in the door at 8:00 am, and by 8:15 I would have the worse headache in the world.  During the day, I would get what felt like, ‘pins and needles’ in my head.  However, at the end of the day, whether it was 5:00 pm or beyond, the headache would immediately disappear. The job was making me sick! BUT, I needed to work and assist with supporting my family.    Unfortunately, I was underpaid and not appreciated.  However, if I had taken another approach, the job might have taken another turn. 

                Taking positive approaches in finding and keeping a job that you love will allow you to discover who you are.  Some of these small irritants that I encountered could have made “life on the job” less taxing if they were approached differently.  Here is what I have learned:  Know that your job and the people on the job do not define you; patting yourself on the back anyway can make all the difference; you have to plan small segments of time for yourself—even on the job; celebrate your success (with others that appreciate you or alone, but celebrate).

               Please know that I am not encouraging anyone to stay in a job wherein they are totally miserable, or leaving when they have families that need their support.  In essence, life is too short to spend time ‘bickering with your spirit’ in trying to find a place in the sun. Find Out Who You Are and Do It On Purpose!

Here is something to think about:

The one thing that you have that no one else has is you: Your voice, your mind, your story, your vision.  So write, and draw and build, and play and dance, and live only as you can!

Remember, Success Is Your Destiny!

Star Thrower: Making a Difference

 

        I recently saw a documentary entitled “Start Throwers”.  I went on to read a few excerpts from the Loren Eiseley story with the same name.   Star throwers are individuals who make a difference one life at a time.  Sometimes the difference is reading a story to a  young child, or visiting the sick, or maybe building a person’s self esteem.

        I have had the opportunity to be a part of a Star Thrower, who just happens to be a young woman of the ripe old age of 19.  Morgan has truly been a star thrower ever since she was in the 5^th grade.  How do I know this? I was her 5^th grade teacher.  AND, yes, I am smarter than a 5^th grader.   Morgan is always listening, coaching, telling others how awesome they are.  She likes to build up others’ self esteem. 

        Recently, I heard that Morgan had been assisting two females.  She has taken one of them to an aquatics center and just “hung out” with her.  She talks to her about friendship, family and anything else this little girl wants to discuss.  This little one had been bullied at school, and needed some inspiration to go on.  Morgan’s next new friend is a 16 year old, that is academically awesome, however socially inept.  Ms. Morgan rose to the occasion to just listen and allow some of her own stories of success,—surface, and take her to the movies.  I too want to make a difference for Morgan, which is why I have set up a GOFUNDME account for her.  Yes, I have.  Morgan has been doing all of this without any financial support.  Please help me to help Morgan.  Thanks for sharing and your support.  Go to: http://www.gofundme.com/wq4d5u9h

ASK FOR WHAT YOU WANT…ASK FOR YOUR VISION!

For years I’ve envisioned myself as an international talk-show host; speaking to individuals all around the world on the issues of life and current trends. Recently, I’ve given much thought to this vision that has lain dormant in my inner being for years, and concluded that I do possess the ability to not only own such title, but to also operate in that profession in the spirit of excellence. Upon reaching this conclusion, I decided that there is no better time than now to pursue this life-long dream of mine. I have taken a leap of FAITH, stepped out-of-the-box, and initiated contact with the producers a nationally syndicated talk show, to request that I be given an opportunity for a reoccurring or occasional appearance on the show as a host. I am not a nationally known celebrity, but I am definitely a celebrity within my own realm. I’ve actually hosted radio talk shows on a regular occasion. I’ve also inspired and empowered others to pursue their passions and dreams. 

I know that this may sound far-fetched to many reading this article, but I hold fast to my position that “we have not because we ask not” and “the sky is literally the limit”. Who determines our destiny, other than the almighty God? We often limit ourselves when we operate in fear, and let fear hinder our pursuit of limitless possibilities. Many of us, now and in times past, have let fear of the unknown cage us in and ultimately give up on our dreams. Sometimes we can miss our window of opportunity by incubating a vision or dream for too long; trying to decide when is the right time to pursue it. I believe the answer is simple - the right time is NOW. This is the season for me and any other desiring to pursue a vision, to step out and pursue that dream, vision, or purpose that has been lying dormant in our inner subconscious; waiting for the opportune time to come forth, and shine bright like a star. We are all celebrities and stars in God’s eyes, and we only have one life opportunity to make our contribution to the world.

Every second counts, and I challenge each individual who reads this article to join me in pursing vision. Let’s not delay another day. We must chart our path and make it happen. There is so much potential in each of us, and we must maximize that potential. If ever – The Time Is NOW…… 

My vision ---You can look for me in the headlines – Dr. Sandra Moaney-Wright (Talk-show host). When I appear, you will recall this conversation we had. See you at the top!!!!!

 

Remember to F.O.C.U.S. because Success is your Destiny!

 

SOBBING AND IN DISTRESS

One of my linked in friends recently wrote that he felt like a failure even though he just recently obtained a Masters Degree. He wrote that he was cleaning bathrooms and wiping up #@$% that people put out. I thought about his words for a second or...morejust recently obtained a Masters Degree.  He wrote that he was cleaning bathrooms and wiping up #@$% that people put out.  I thought about his words for a second or two and I commented on those words:
1.  Stop the pity party, sob if you may, put your faith into actions
2. You have a skill (cleaning)--while you sobbing get a business license and CLEAN for yourself  in your own business venture while waiting on the great job.
3.  Use LINKED IN, not just as a social site, but get to know some of your LINKED IN partners.  Send them inmails,  So many people get on LINKED IN and do nothing with it.
4. After you get that great job or your business takes off, Write that BOOK and give your testimony
5. Have a great day and a prosperous forever

Remember to F.O.C.U.S and Success is Your Destiny

Going in the Wrong Direction

Someone gave me an analogy of “split ends” on a person’s hair.  In order to have healthy looking hair you have to cut off the split ends.  And, then I remember a sermon that was recently given my pastor about Going in the Wrong Direction.  One of the things that he mentioned was that we need to stop resuscitating what God has killed in our lives because it will evidentially take us in the WRONG DIRECTION.  Well, how would one tie these things together?  A woman has to “kill the ends of her hair” to make it healthier and more vibrant looking….God kills or stops things in your life that will not make you grow and prosper and become vibrant.  Do you still have “split ends” in your life?  Are you trying to resuscitate things that you should have funeralized?  If so, you are GOING IN THE WRONG DIRECTION.  You have to be careful who you follow and allow into your space (as find your direction and purpose).  The enemy wants you to go into the wrong direction and question your identity.   Ask yourself, is there anything about ME that will stifle ME from getting to the next level or allow me to go in the WRONG DIRECTION.  Cut it off…kill it!  Find out who you are and do it on purpose.  F.O.C.U.S. and remember Success is Your Destiny!

Keeping your Promises to Your Customers

Recently, a telephone customer service representative told me that he would call me back with information that I requested  He asked for a 24-hour window to get the information back to me.  Additionally, he stated that he would respond either by email or call me.  At the time of the conversation, I was about to drop my telephone service--I had had enough!  Poor customer service, I thought.  How realized I had been transferred to so many people that didn't know anything!  This was the last straw!  However, within a four hour time frame, this person had not only gotten back with me (via telephone and email) but also offered tips to make things run smoother for me if the incident occurred again.  WOW!  What a relief!  My faith was restored!  This simple gesture astounded me--why?  Because customer service seems to be a thing of the past!  This helped this company save another customer by just being timely and polite! And to think, I will tell others about this experience.

Gestures such as these should teach companies that:  1. the competition is stiff, and you should alway maintain and edge over them; 2. instanteous technological communication is just a click away..use it; 3. customers that have been frayed, worn and torn will take their $$$ elsewhere in a heartbeat so make sure that you offer assistance, keep your promises, or offer a viable solution. 


Remember to F.O.C.U.S, and that SUCCESS IS YOUR DESTINY!

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